Of course there's nothing wrong with
offering parental support. I have sat through
endless school dance and drama productions
at the behest of my daughters. But most
of the games I see during my Saturday morning
jog are run by dads who have taken it upon
themselves to organize "professional" training
sessions for the kids.
The more professional the sessions, they
reason, the better. Yet most seem far more
concerned with having the right equipment
-- corner flags, plastic bibs, training
cones -- than with ensuring the enjoyment
of the kids in their charge.
In almost two decades as a soccer journalist,
I have not met a single professional soccer
player who attributes his success to any
training sessions organized by his parents.
Steven Gerrard is always keen to
thank his father for driving him to and
from endless training sessions across Liverpool. John
Terry often mentions the Senrab boys
club in east London, where he played competitive
games as teenager. But I don't recall Wayne
Rooney thanking his dad for forcing
him to do shuttle runs up and down his
local park in Croxteth. And I don't remember Ronaldinho expressing
gratitude for being cajoled into wearing
a plastic bib for five-a-side kickabouts.
The simple reality is that kids develop
most as footballers when they are left
alone to play -- free from interference
from adults. Talent is innate, it cannot
be coached out of a child by an ambitious
parent. There may be cases in individual
sports such as tennis of hot-housed child
prodigies achieving great things as adults.
But in team sports, such processes are
rare.
Even with teenagers, it is hard to spot
the genuinely talented. The recent Under-17
world championship in South Korea is a
case in point. It was won by Nigeria, which
beat Spain in the final to record its first
success in the competition since 1993.
Inevitably, big things are being predicted
for the stars of the latest tournament,
especially as Spain's best player, Bojan
Krkic, is already on the verge of Barcelona's
first team.
But I looked up Nigeria's victorious '93
squad. By my reckoning, only four players
from the 18-strong party -- Nwanwko
Kanu, Celestine Babayaro, Pascal
Ojigwe and Wilson Oruma -- went
on to enjoy lengthy professional careers
in Europe.
In the 1991 event, Ghana's Nii Lamptey was
voted player of the tournament. At the
time, Lamptey was hailed as the "new Pelé" --
by Pelé himself. Lamptey joined
Belgian club Anderlecht at the age of 16
but never fulfilled his potential. Off
the pitch, he suffered personal tragedy
(both his children died soon after birth)
and he drifted from club to club, and from
continent to continent. He was last heard
of trying his luck with Jomo Cosmos in
South Africa.
Lamptey was a victim of the huge pressures
heaped upon young players. The media has
to shoulder its portion of the blame. But
parents could do their bit, too, by leaving
kids alone to enjoy their soccer for as
long as possible before things get serious.